Of course, if your partner comes home late at night reeking of another person’s signature scent, it seems pretty obvious that something is amiss. But often, the signs of cheating are far more subtle.
Whether you have a fleeting concern about new behaviors or are seriously worried that your spouse could be having an affair, experts advise these signals you should watch out for.
1. The phone goes everywhere with them—even the bathroom.
First, a caveat: Some people are seriously hooked on their phones and tote them along out of habit, or boredom—that doesn’t mean they’re cheating, Klow says. The issue arises if this is suddenly a new thing for your partner.
That’s definitely more concerning, according to Durvasula. “They know that messages from the other person can come at any time,” she says, so if they’ve always relied on the bathroom stash of magazines to get them through their quiet time, and suddenly they’re relying on their phone, it might be worth keeping an eye on.
2. Suddenly Too Busy To See You. They ghost you
If your partner has the habit of disappearing for days without you having a clue where they are it is sign that they could be spending time with someone else in that time. If your partner has the habit of disappearing for days without you having a clue where they are it is sign that they could be spending time with someone else in that time.
No matter how busy your boyfriend/girlfriend is, he/she would find ways to see you if he/she truly loves you. Seeing your special someone could relieve your stress. Therefore, if your boyfriend/girlfriend rarely visits or asks you out anymore because he/she is so ‘busy’—then it is either he/she is not that in love with you like before or is in love with someone new.
3. He Accuses You Of Cheating.
This is another defense mechanism. He projects his mistakes on you by accusing you of doing the things he does. He becomes paranoid, thinking you could also cheat him the way he does. Also, this could be his way of making an excuse for his actions. He wants to find something he could use against you so that he would be spared from the guilt.
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